Moving on …. is difficult

moving on quotes

moving on quotes

 

Moving on is a difficult process , & I am not talking about any relationship , I am talking about life in general . When you have been steady for a long period of time , its difficult to adapt new change. Its like learning to walk all over again. You are scared to fall down , its not as easy as it was the first time , coz at that time , learning to walk was new to you , you didnt knew how it hurts when you fall down , you were to focused on the new feeling … But when you start it again , its not the same , you al ready know the feeling of falling hard , how badly it could hurt , & than you stop abruptly , the fear taking control over your , turning into the primal instinct. What do you do than ?? How do you move ??

It also gets frustrating with the more time passes , but you have to make a decision quick , coz time is such a tricky thing , it all depends on right timings ….

The last few days of my life have presented me with amazing opportunities, but opportunities that didn’t come without uncertainty. “Would this be a mistake if I did this?”, “I can’t afford to pass this up.”, “I can’t afford to mess this up.”, “What if things don’t go as planned?”

I have seen lot of opportunities in past , also taken some risks , & it was amazing new experience , but damn its also scary ..when deciding on which to choose … But they were small things , didn’t asked for big time commitments , neither had any influence of any other factors on it …But the ones I am facing now …. whoa … too big ….

As said by someone , the decisions you take in your 20’s make your life in 30’s …..

I’m reminded by another quote I recently came across, “Nothing is risker than not taking risks.”

I feel that this statement fits nicely right before the Mockbee quote. Decide on the risk, take it, then “proceed and be bold” moving forward…..

Gosh even this post in confusing … lolz…

Since quite a time my steps have been falling on unfamiliar and uneven turf; not a bad thing – different. I have always reached, but within that circumference of the familiar and reachable, never looking outside my “comfortable.” Today I am finding, I might have to  stretch my fingers into the mists of the unknown just outside that circle. I wonder if I should – just do it. !!!!

Another wise words I remember from somewhere : If circumstances have knocked you flat on your back, find your feet! Put one foot in front of the other, and moveon. ….

I guess this might be my answer …..

The Uncertain path …

When I chose engineering it was meant to be the first step in a major ‘life overhaul’, a fresh start in pastures new, putting the past behind me and exploring new, exciting challenges and roles…

For the past 3 years of my life, I had always been so sure of what I wanted to do and who I wanted to be. But now that I am older, more mature, and more aware of who I am as a person, I feel a career change is necessary. Although, this career change isn’t a drastic change from my original plan.I’m searching. And I guess I’m just looking for feeling. I want it to feel right.

Unlike many others, I’ve chosen to take in the experiences of students who are heads down in lives of their own. I’ve temporarily removed myself from my own environment, the place I normally call home (at least right now), to take in what someone else’s home is like. I’m on the outside looking in. It’s quite a feeling.

I’ve embarked on this exploration largely out of curiosity; I felt naturally pulled by some gravitational force from within, pulling me to discover that thing in life that elicits the response, ‘This is it’. This curiosity, combined with uncertainty, is a bit scary. But at the same time, it yields more result.

People say you should not go looking for answers , you just need to keep moving & you will be led to your answers eventually , thats what happens in novels atleast , so should I do that. Take the plate that’s served right now in front of me & keep going along …….. or Try a new path , find map ;

Well the decision is yet to be made , but I have already thought too much about everything , I think now , I am just gonna take action , whatever it will be , wherever it takes me , I won’t regret my choices . It reminds me of that poem we used to sing in our English music period. & I think thats a hint for me .The lines go somewhat like this :

When I was just a little girl
I asked my mother, what will I be
Will I be pretty, will I be rich
Here’s what she said to me.
Que Sera, Sera,
Whatever will be, will be
The future‘s not ours, to see
Que Sera, Sera
What will be, will be.

what to do !!!

 

It s a matter of choice ….

One of the most difficult task  for me (besides cooking) is choosing , selecting the right option at the right time , It s not like I don’t know what I want, its opposite of that , its like choices arrive to me in a way that I want it both , setting priorities is a way out , but again the same question , what is more important ….

Some choices are immaterial , like wearing white top or should I go with the black one , while some are more difficult choices , Attending family get together or going to the School reunion , it is difficult to choose , when both the sides matter to you , choosing one means disappointing the other .

Even choosing which fan team you are is tricky , do you want Elena to choose Stefan or Damon all the way , which team to support when both the teams have  your favorite football players Cristiano Ronaldo or Lionel Messi , such choices doesn’t effect your life , still you are not able to make a choice , think if the choices you are going to make are gonna change you life completely , like which field you wanna pursue your career , you love designing but you also have that passion of travelling !!!

Damn this choices , you always end up regretting , whole life is based on choices you made, & the if … condition , what if I had chosen that college , what would have happen if I had never missed that interview …. & more if ….

Only emotions are something where choices doesn’t come to picture, you dont choose to fall in love with a wrong person , you just do , you didn’t meant to have those hatred feelings for family , but you do , you envy someone the moment you saw them , its an impulsive reaction ….

I always end my posts with a conclusion but than I know what are the deals , but when it comes to choices I am still trying to figure out a big deal in my life , so this post is going to be  the one post I never ended , atleast not yet …

Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else’s.

You are making a risk with your choice, as you are leaving it up to chance whether it will be a good one