We take Life for Granted ….

Posted on July 22, 2012 by shammee

The tragic incident that happened at movie theater in Colorado in U.S has made a very deep impact on many people ‘s lives , no one had the slightest idea , that such a tragic event would happen at a place were everyone was just waiting to watch one of the most anticipated movie The Dark Knight Rises …..

Such tragic events make us realize how we take life for granted, how we waste our life , & do not appreciate the things that we have in our life , but the moment we get saved from such tragedy , we realize how important life is , that s the moment when life time memories passes by in front of our eyes & we see what we missed in our life , what we should have consider in our life ….

The laughs we shared with our loved ones, the hugs from our dear ones , our own smiles , the help we got from stranger, the forgiveness from our parents ,the little gifts from our friends , the inspiration from our mentors …. everything little thing that were not so little , that should have been our top most priorities , we neglected …

We pile on so many responsibilities and deadlines, that we forget to just stop and thank God for allowing us to be alive. We get so caught up in the pressures of our society, that we do not take the time to think about how privledged we are to live.Once and a while, we have to just stop everything, and reflect on how gracious God truly is, for allowing us to be alive at this very moment.

It s time we stop neglecting those actually important things in our life, Life is too short to waste it on pointless things that just take up the time you are given.Enjoy life, and make the most of it. Even those bad moments. At the end of it all, I bet anyone would be happy to have a little more not so great times than nothing at all. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest,

So here s the deal , take too many pictures,tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone’s hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don’t be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

Never Back Down …..

Posted on July 14, 2012 by shammee

Sometimes I have good days and sometimes I have bad days everyone does. I know it is hard to keep strong and keep moving on. But, you just have to rememeber tomorrow is a better day. You just have to have the courage to believe it will be. Every time I try something I have never done before , start something new , it is difficult , & the first thought comes to my mind is lets not go any further , but than I just couldn’t live with that feeling that I stopped trying in the very beginning .So again I start & second time its less difficult than the first time , or maybe the problem is same but I just changed my attitude .

Some people are gifted while some train themselves , that’s the difference , but they both achieve things in life , the difference is the one who is gifted doesn’t has to put on as much efforts as the one who is trying to train , but once you decide what you want in life , there s no looking back , stop regretting what you lost in the past , its history , you can not change , but you can not waste your present .

People confuses this two feelings a lot , moving on & trying again … you move on when you feel you have given your best shot & now its not worth doing it all over again , while trying on is like you have n’t yet reached the peak of your intensity , there is still more you can do in it ….. most of people gets lost in choosing the right thing to do at the right time.

But one thing is sure , you can not give up without atleast trying it , you have to stay strong , it would hurt , believe me I know , but once the learning phase is gone , you would feel the happiness that you can’t express it , sometimes you have to prove it to yourself , all the things that happened in your life , all the things you suffered , you owe that much to yourself .

You might not know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice left to you ….

Strength doesn’t come from what you can do , It comes from overcoming things that once you thought you couldn’t Do, you will discover your true self , your real strengths only when you go through the difficult phase , rainbows only appear when sun rays finds it ways through the dark clouds. Just believe in yourself , never let anyone s opinion about you stop you from doing it.

I don’t need to recall the stories of all great people who have made a remark in the history , by achieving success , by proving people wrong , by trying something impossible & showing it to the world it is possible , one thing is common they never gave up , they gave their best shot ……